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Comments on Profile Post by Turtleguy2018

  1. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    So me and this girl were dating. We had been for a couple months. I had joined my schools bowling team because of her just to spend more time with her, I loved her. Last Friday she broke up with me and it destroyed me. Every time I see her my heart just sinks.
    Dec 4, 2017
  2. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    My parents are the kind to make me finish things I start, so they won’t let me quit the bowling team. They said if I did quit they’d ground me for months. Every time I see her I feel like just falling apart. What should I do?
    Dec 4, 2017
  3. Bacon
    Bacon
    why'd she break up with you
    Dec 4, 2017
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  4. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    She was t happy because we never spent any time together. She was always busy.
    Dec 4, 2017
  5. Bacon
    Bacon
    that's a pretty bad reason to break up with someone. she broke up with you because of something she did basically.
    Dec 4, 2017
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  6. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    Yeah, she didn’t want to be with me if she couldn’t give me her all, so she gave me nothing.
    Dec 4, 2017
  7. Bacon
    Bacon
    well if it's not your fault, you shouldn't be nervous around her.
    Dec 4, 2017
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  8. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    I’m not nervous, it just hurts to see her.
    Dec 4, 2017
  9. Nitromaniac
    Nitromaniac
    Don't let her hurt you. Honestly sounds like a dumb reason to break up, and if you guys really loved each other, it wouldn't matter how little you got to see each other. I say stand your ground and show her that she should have never broken up with the best bowler on the team.
    Dec 4, 2017
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  10. Nitromaniac
    Nitromaniac
    But stay strong dude, break-ups are tough, and you'll get through it.
    Dec 4, 2017
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  11. Masteraj12
    Masteraj12
    I was here a few months ago... It's a really quick and sudden thing. There's barely been any time for you to recover and resituate, so I would say give it some time before truly quitting. It's going to hurt to see her and everything, but you will eventually get over it (I don't think I really need to say that though). Before making the decision to quit, try and see if you can avoid doing it right now.
    Dec 4, 2017
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  12. Masteraj12
    Masteraj12
    Try and see if you could talk to the bowling team's captain or sponsor so you can work something out. It's a rough time in life and I'm sure they will understand if you want to avoid meeting up sometimes with them. Skip 1-2 practices, but don't entirely quit. I'm sure that's reasonable.
    Dec 4, 2017
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  13. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    I would but you see, the bowling teams coach is her dad, so it make it that much worse.
    Dec 4, 2017
  14. Rod337
    Rod337
    Oh dang, in a pickle. Just stick through it. Hurts, but its gotta happen. When I broke up with my girlfriend, I had joined the robotics team because she was in it. Sucked having to face her every time, but I ended up meeting my current boyfriend in that club lol.
    Dec 11, 2017
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  15. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    I completely forgot you were bi and that last sentence threw me through a loop. Thanks though, I’m trying to push through.
    Dec 12, 2017
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  16. Rod337
    Rod337
    Lmao, it gets better trust me.
    Dec 12, 2017
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  17. Turtleguy2018
    Turtleguy2018
    I hope so
    Dec 15, 2017